Sunday, February 8, 2009
HIV 101 made by Positivism
I always used this video clip because of its creativity and taglish meduim of communication. Viewers will easily get the ideas. I'm suggesting to view this HIV 101 clip made by Positivism. Thanks to them, we can easily understand how the idea of awareness and prevention.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
According to some researches, the ability of humans to retain a certain idea is much higher in those who watched it than those who read it.
I will give you the best HIV 101 in English medium courtesy by Youtube.
Hope it could help you to understand the idea which the video wants to deliver. the 10 mins. video clip discuss the basic info about HIV. the interviewed people are very consistent and really have guts in terms of credibilty.
the clip deliver there message very well.
It's one I used in my sharing and guest speaking when I'm invited to discuss topics related on it.
Saturday, January 24, 2009
As part of my Blog posting, I will lead you to a more easy to understand topics. Here's an example. Taken from Youtube made by Positivism.
The Return of Kuya Lumier
Yes, you read it right! I’m back!
After a year of busy yet very meaningful disappearance, I’m here to write again.
I do have clear aim in writing now, not just before that the topics are anything.
My Blogs will aim for HIV/Aids Awareness and prevention because of these reasons:
First, I’m currently working as a Youth Advisory Panel in a branch of United Nations here in the Phils. These campaigns the prevalence and awareness about HIV/Aids and other problems related to reproductive health.
Second, Philippines are facing a serious problem in future if not give concern by all. Most of the positive people today are getting younger. The documented or known diagnosed of having HIV/Aids here in the Phils. is about 3,300 & still counting, but there’s a research which estimates 11,000 positive people here in the Philippines. Most of them is unaware or in denial of their present health status.
My blogs will focus on it and I’m assuring that all information and resources that I will post have a credible reference/s. I want that my blogs would be the reference of many especially those young people with risky behaviors.
In the other side, I would like to thank those people who read my blogs and do put comments. I really appreciate it! It gives me wisdom to pursue my aims now in writing.
Again, if you do have questions, comments, suggestions or even violent reactions, don’t hesitate to message me in my email address at Kuya.lumier@gmail.com or leave it in the comment form. I do also have friendster account, add me using my email.
Sunday, October 21, 2007
I’m a G4M Member
At last, Kuya Lumier is now a member of www.guys4men.com
G4M is a website for homosexual community particularly the Gays and Bimales. It’s some like a friendster or myspace. Quite interesting for us curious guys. I decided to have an account to become part of the updates about the Gay/Bi world.
See my profile @ www.guys4men.com/members/1061189
G4M is a website for homosexual community particularly the Gays and Bimales. It’s some like a friendster or myspace. Quite interesting for us curious guys. I decided to have an account to become part of the updates about the Gay/Bi world.
See my profile @ www.guys4men.com/members/1061189
Sembreak na naman
Sembreak na, Pahinga na. Ano bang pingakakaabalahan ni Kuya Lumier pag sembreak? Bukod sa paghihilata sa kama buong araw ay nagagawa ko rin gawin ang mga hindi ko magawa kapag may klase. Isa na ang gimik o night life. Hindi naman ako palagimik. Minsanan lang. Magastos din naman kasi gumimik. Ang pagsusulat sa blogsite ko ang isa rin ginagawa ko. Minsan ko lang naman maisingit ang pagsusulat pag may time.
Bakasyon nga pag sembreak pero sa bahay lang naman ako nagkukulong kaya minsan mas ok din na may pasok o ginagawa. Pagbisita sa mga kaibigan din ang past time ko pagbakasyon bukod sa pag nenet.
Bakasyon nga pag sembreak pero sa bahay lang naman ako nagkukulong kaya minsan mas ok din na may pasok o ginagawa. Pagbisita sa mga kaibigan din ang past time ko pagbakasyon bukod sa pag nenet.
Sunday, August 12, 2007
Ang Mader ng Ganda, an I-Witness segment
I-Witness reporter Howie Severino tackle the life of being a Gay and of course the life of the Mother of Gays in the Phils, Ricky Reyes. The segment was entitled, "Ang Mader ng Ganda." I got it in YouTube and it has 4 Parts.
Mental Health Hotline
Irish Mental Health Hotline had an Answering Machine or maybe a recorded operator that instructing the caller what will be press in a particular mental problem. Try to listen.
Bart Simpson is Gay?!
The Simpsons tv episode. Homer Simpson thinks that his son Bart is Gay. Find out what happend when Homer do some plans to prevent Bart to become a Gay.
Monday, August 6, 2007
Friendster Ko Mahal Ko by Kuya Lumier
Ang Ugat ng lahat nang kalokohang ito!
Hindi naman kalokohan yun noh (bawi agad). Nag umpisa ang penname kong Kuya Lumier sa Friendster. Bi Guru ang drama; na gustong makatulong sa iba ring bisexual, gays and other members of the homo community. Sosyal, hindi ba?!
Well, in fairness, marami namang humingi ng advice sa akin. Karamihan about sa love life nila na talaga namang problema ng mga homo community. At lahat naman ay nakuntento sa advice ko. Wala pa namang violent reaction sa mga binigay kong advise. Astig, hindi ba?!
Based kasi sa experiences ko at research ang advise na binibigay ko. Idagdag pa natin ang pagiging frustrated Psychologist ko. Ang point pa nun ay nakakarelate din ako sa situations nila so I could give a good advise. Naman, hindi ba?!
Masarap makatulong sa iba. Yan ang philosophy ko na pinapairal sa pagiging Bi Guru. Mahirap atang magbigay ng tamang advise sa tamang tao. Walang bayad ang advise ko ineng kaya hindi masama magtanong o humihingi ng payo sa akin. Cute, hindi ba?!
May iilan na kini-criticized ang paraan ng pagpapayo ko by friendster or chatroom. Paano raw sila magkakatrust sa akin kung hindi nila ako kilala personally. Ano kaya pinagkaiba ng paghingi ng advise sa isang pari? o kaya sa isang DJ? o kaya sa isang matandang nagtitinda ng kendi sa kalsada? Minsan masarap makipag usap at ikwento ang pang MMK na buhay mo sa hindi mo kakilala dahil hindi niya matsitsismis ang buhay mo sa mga kakilala mo. Ang point ko ay… walang mawawala kung ishashare mo ang problems mo sa iba. Nakakagaan nga ng loob yun dahil narerelease mo kahit papaano ang stress by narrating your dramatic life with exaggeration. Right?! Pagnashare mo na sa akin then its time for me to make a good advise for you. Nasa sayo na yan kung papatulan mo ang advise ko o maglalakad ka nalang papalayo nang pacreap walk. Nilagay ko naman sa description ko sa friendster na Bi Guru ako. Specialty ko ang kabaklaan. At nasa inyo na rin yun kung totoo ba ang mga nabanggit ko o hindi. Superb, hindi ba?!
Sa pagkakaalam ko ay wala pang katulad ko na BI Guru. Paano naman pauso ko lang yun. Isama mo pa ang pauso kong emo style with face mask. Astig! May symbolism ang paggamit ko ng face mask. Syempre, una, para hindi ako masyado makilala ng mga nakakakilala sa akin. Next, Symbolism yun na hindi parin nawawala ang discrimination sa ating bansa. Baka pagnakilala ako ng mga schoolmates ko eh mabuwag na ang fans club ko. Its my style and they must respect it. Be unique like me. Marvelous, hindi ba?!
Pasenxa na sa mga nagrerequest makita ako in person pero busy talaga ako eh. I can help you parin naman by messaging me sa friendster. Try ninyo lang magtanong o humingi ng advise sa akin at baka ang sasabihin ko na pala ang sagot sa matagal mo nang problema. Wushu, hindi ba?!
I love my Friendster. Kita ninyo naman kinareer ang background and all other stuffs sa account ko. Syempre I also love my penname. Astig kaya ako sa ibang tao. Nagagalingan sila kahit na parang binibilog lang nila utot ko. Todo na ito. Tuloy tuloy na. Up.. up.. and away..
Para makarelate sa mga pinagsasabi ko about my friendster account, kindly check it at www.friendster.com/lumier . Add ninyo nalang ako kung gusto ninyo, kung hindi naman ok lang din. Lalagyan ko nalang ng virus ang friendster account mo para mabura. Joke lang. hehe. Seeyah!
Friday, August 3, 2007
Do’s and Dont’s in First Aid by Kuya Lumier

Some know how to do a first aid and some rely on there old wives tale beliefs. Know some Do’s and Dont’s in First Aid:
1. Cuts and Scrapes
Do’s:
Ø The most effective way to get rid of debris and bacteria without damaging healthy tissue is by flushing the wound out with water.
Ø If the bandage sticked to the wound use an antibacterial ointment that contains bacitracin or neomycin to keep the area lubricated.
Dont’s:
Ø Putting hydrogen peroxide (Agua oxinada) to a wound can clean the wound BUT can also kill healthy cells.
Ø Rubbing alcohol hurts truly if penetrated to a wound because it’s wiping out healthy tissue.
Ø Putting iodine on cuts and wounds kills bacteria but it won’t clean the wound.
Ø Putting Mercurochrome kills bacteria but it contains Mercury which is toxic to our body.
Ø First using hydrogen peroxide, Rubbing Alcohol and iodine can be toxic to our skin cells and also imped healing.
2. Burns
Do’s:
Ø Run the burn under cool water immediately to remove the heat and clean the area.
Ø Wrap the burn with sterile gauze or a non-adhesive bandage and keep it clean and dry.
Ø If blisters form, don’t break the blisters because the fluid inside is sterile and creates a natural bandage in burn.
Dont’s:
Ø Putting butter, soy sauce or toothpaste in burn to ease the pain is a popular old wives tales that can cause infection; create an environment for bacterial growth and aggreviates the redness.
3. Poisoning
Do’s:
Ø Immediately call a poison control to be able to tell you what to do or send the victim directly to the Emergency room if seriously emergency.
Ø Use activated charcoal (AC) in powder form or premixed with water (slurry) within an hour of ingesting the poison. AC acts like a sponge that preventing the poison to enter the bloodstream. The amount of AC to be use depends on the victim’s weight.
Dont’s:
Ø Using syrup of ipecac cannot stop the poison but rather irritates the stomach to induce vomiting and can lead to excessive vomiting that may cause dehydration.
Ø Don’t try to vomit the poison because it can burn your esophagus and prevent doctors from giving other treatment.
4. Excess Bleeding
Do’s:
Ø Apply direct pressure to the wound as recommended by the Red Cross for Best solution in excess bleeding.
Ø Place a clean cloth on the wound and press firmly. If it gets saturated, add more cloth right on top of the first (without removing the first). Applying direct pressure reduces blood flow to the wound and promotes clotting.
Ø If that’s not enough, you can apply pressure to the main artery in the site of the wound.
Dont’s:
Ø Using tourniquets (like that you have learned in your Boy/Girl Scout activities) can increase the risk of the tissue damage or even loss of the limb. There are other methods that can slow the blood flow so using tourniquets is not adviceable.
Reference: Reader’s Digest
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Busy-busyhan si Kuya by Kuya Lumier
Bago palang pumasok ang June 2007 ay busy na ako. Naghahanda sa kung anong gagawin sa Revalida. Ang Revalida o Grand Return Demonstration ay isang practical exam kung saan aalamin ang iyong kakayahan at talino na gawin ang mga bagay na ginagawa ng isang Nurse sa Ospital. NURSE?! Opo, student nurse po ako. Aspiring future Registered Nurse. Well, tumataas na ang level kaya humihirap na ang mga subjects.
Pagpasok ng June, start of classes, KABOOM! Dirediretso ang mga school works. May mga assignments, Nursing History at Drug Study, at quiz every meetings (Araw2x yun) at ang Evaluation exam every end of lecture and duty pa. Akala ko dati pagduty walang gagawin, yun pala may lecturing, assignments at quizzes pa rin.
Toxic ang first duty ever ko sa Phil Orthopedic Center (P.O.C.). Lecture at Reporting ang eksena sa POC yun nga lang tiis ka sa init. Agawan sa upuan, electric fan at kwarto.
Next duty, Emergency Room (E.R.). PM shift kami kaya 3P.M. to 11P.M. ang emote namin. 1 week yun. 1 week duty kasi sa amin talaga. Para palang tindahan ang ER. Minsan maraming Client (Patient) at minsan wala. Pagmaraming pasyente madalas ngarag kami. Pagwala namang pasyente, kumakanta at sumasayaw nalang kami ng mga kanta ni Willie NG wowowee. Pampalipas oras lang. Entertainment na rin para sa mga staff nurse at resident doctor.
Iba na ang pakiramdam pagduty na sa hospital. Feel mo na talagang this is it na ang course mo. Toxic, haggard o exhausted madalas pero exciting at masaya naman kasi application na ang ginagawa mo dun sa mga lectures na dati ay tinutulugan mo lang. Pero wag madala sa feeling dahil kailangan totohanin ang feeling nay an. Galingan pareho sa lecture at duty.
Habang walang ginagawa kami ng mga groupmates ko sa ER, napagkwentuhan naming kung gusto ba naming talaga magnursing. Ang iba second courser na (ito yung mayayabang). Ang iba nagshift ng course, dating architecture lumipat nagshift sa Nursing, dating Tourism nagshift sa Nursing at dating Care Giver nagshift ng Nursing. Karamihan ayaw o hindi talaga nila gusto magnursing. Yung Clinical Instructor (C.I.) nga namin Interior Design ang gusto talaga pero nagnursing because of the big pressure, ang parents. Dahil in demand ang nursing abroad ayan lahat na nagnunursing kahit na 50 y.o. na nagnunursing pa rin. Saan nga lang magamit nya course nya bago dumating ang life span limit ng isang Pinoy.
Kung ako tatanungin, I’m a frustrated Psychologist. Lahat na ata ng gusto maging nung mas bata pa ako nasabi ko na. Doktor, lawyer, Police, Teacher, Veterinarian, Businessman at President of the Phils. Pero nursing hindi ko matandaang binanggit ko yun. Bukod sa alam ko nung mas bata pa ako na ang nurse ay katulong ng doctor eh pang babaeng course pa ito. Naliwanagan lang ako nung nag aral na ko.
Ngayon ok na ako sa course ko. I love it na! masaya na ako maging nurse in near future. Ang balak ko pagregistered nurse na ako ay magturo. Prof, Teacher or CI, kahit ano pa itawag sa akin ok basta makapagturo ako. Then lilipad na ako kung saang lupalop ng mundo na kailangan ang isang katulad ko. Dun magpapayaman ako katulad ng mga balak ninyo.
Advise lang, kunin ninyo ang gusto ninyong course talaga, kung pwede. Kung hindi at parents parin ang masusunod eh wala magagawa. Tsaka nalang kunin pagkagraduate. Ang nursing kailangan talaga ng dedication at calling na magserve ka as a nurse. Dahil kung pera lang habol ninyo (tulad ko) kaya kayo nagnursing baka negligence o mal practice ang kaso mo dahil wala ka nung tinatawag nilang Tender Loving Care.
So alam na ninyo nangyayari sa akin. With story telling pa yan on the side ha. Pasensya na kaso may business ako as a student na hindi pwedeng pabayaan. Ganun pa man ay hindi ko pinababayaan ang Pen-name ko, Kuya Lumier. Ay prioritization effect lang ako. Basta maluwag schedule ko gagawa ako ng blog.
Pagpasok ng June, start of classes, KABOOM! Dirediretso ang mga school works. May mga assignments, Nursing History at Drug Study, at quiz every meetings (Araw2x yun) at ang Evaluation exam every end of lecture and duty pa. Akala ko dati pagduty walang gagawin, yun pala may lecturing, assignments at quizzes pa rin.
Toxic ang first duty ever ko sa Phil Orthopedic Center (P.O.C.). Lecture at Reporting ang eksena sa POC yun nga lang tiis ka sa init. Agawan sa upuan, electric fan at kwarto.
Next duty, Emergency Room (E.R.). PM shift kami kaya 3P.M. to 11P.M. ang emote namin. 1 week yun. 1 week duty kasi sa amin talaga. Para palang tindahan ang ER. Minsan maraming Client (Patient) at minsan wala. Pagmaraming pasyente madalas ngarag kami. Pagwala namang pasyente, kumakanta at sumasayaw nalang kami ng mga kanta ni Willie NG wowowee. Pampalipas oras lang. Entertainment na rin para sa mga staff nurse at resident doctor.
Iba na ang pakiramdam pagduty na sa hospital. Feel mo na talagang this is it na ang course mo. Toxic, haggard o exhausted madalas pero exciting at masaya naman kasi application na ang ginagawa mo dun sa mga lectures na dati ay tinutulugan mo lang. Pero wag madala sa feeling dahil kailangan totohanin ang feeling nay an. Galingan pareho sa lecture at duty.
Habang walang ginagawa kami ng mga groupmates ko sa ER, napagkwentuhan naming kung gusto ba naming talaga magnursing. Ang iba second courser na (ito yung mayayabang). Ang iba nagshift ng course, dating architecture lumipat nagshift sa Nursing, dating Tourism nagshift sa Nursing at dating Care Giver nagshift ng Nursing. Karamihan ayaw o hindi talaga nila gusto magnursing. Yung Clinical Instructor (C.I.) nga namin Interior Design ang gusto talaga pero nagnursing because of the big pressure, ang parents. Dahil in demand ang nursing abroad ayan lahat na nagnunursing kahit na 50 y.o. na nagnunursing pa rin. Saan nga lang magamit nya course nya bago dumating ang life span limit ng isang Pinoy.
Kung ako tatanungin, I’m a frustrated Psychologist. Lahat na ata ng gusto maging nung mas bata pa ako nasabi ko na. Doktor, lawyer, Police, Teacher, Veterinarian, Businessman at President of the Phils. Pero nursing hindi ko matandaang binanggit ko yun. Bukod sa alam ko nung mas bata pa ako na ang nurse ay katulong ng doctor eh pang babaeng course pa ito. Naliwanagan lang ako nung nag aral na ko.
Ngayon ok na ako sa course ko. I love it na! masaya na ako maging nurse in near future. Ang balak ko pagregistered nurse na ako ay magturo. Prof, Teacher or CI, kahit ano pa itawag sa akin ok basta makapagturo ako. Then lilipad na ako kung saang lupalop ng mundo na kailangan ang isang katulad ko. Dun magpapayaman ako katulad ng mga balak ninyo.
Advise lang, kunin ninyo ang gusto ninyong course talaga, kung pwede. Kung hindi at parents parin ang masusunod eh wala magagawa. Tsaka nalang kunin pagkagraduate. Ang nursing kailangan talaga ng dedication at calling na magserve ka as a nurse. Dahil kung pera lang habol ninyo (tulad ko) kaya kayo nagnursing baka negligence o mal practice ang kaso mo dahil wala ka nung tinatawag nilang Tender Loving Care.
So alam na ninyo nangyayari sa akin. With story telling pa yan on the side ha. Pasensya na kaso may business ako as a student na hindi pwedeng pabayaan. Ganun pa man ay hindi ko pinababayaan ang Pen-name ko, Kuya Lumier. Ay prioritization effect lang ako. Basta maluwag schedule ko gagawa ako ng blog.
Monday, May 21, 2007
A Message for a Gossiper by Kuya Lumier
If you are a Gossiper:
Yes we know, it’s hard to break the habit. But before you open your mouth again, keep the following in mind: You may be talking about other people, but you’re actually revealing a lot about yourself. People who talks too much become transparent and eventually showing others that they’re insecure, envious or wanting attention. People who gossip all the time lose other people’s respect. They may find you entertaining but boys and girls alike will remember that you can’t keep your mouth shut and will think twice about trusting you. Which makes it hard for blabbermouths to make real friends; gossip attracts other gossips, you may have trouble looking for someone to talk to who won’t announce your personal problems to the rest of the world. That’s pretty sad, don’t you think?
Also, remember that you may be helping to destroy the quality another person’s life. Like smoking, in harmful gossip is a bad habit everyone should make the effort to break, before it poisons us and the people around us.
Dealing With The Gossip and The Backstabbers by Kuya Lumier

“Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me,” this beautiful saying would give you the wisdom to deal with the gossip.
Gossip hurts us because they are truly bothered that someone finds something wrong with them, or hates them enough to put them down. It can attack confidence, wreck or strain friendships, and cause one to have a low self-esteem. It can even lead to depression, which can affect one’s studies, lead to rebellious behavior and have along-term effects on someone’s future.
Harmful gossip there is no sure-fire plan to end it but there are ways to lessen its impact on you.
- CONSIDER THE REASON FOR THE GOSSIP. The more we are aware of the reasons we’re being gossiped about, the easier it is to not take the rumors or its sources so seriously.
- BE DIRECT IF YOU’RE SURE THE SOURCE OF THE GOSSIP IS A FRIEND OF YOURS. Ask her why she did it, and if possible, talk it out. If she seems sincerely sorry and ask for another chance, give it to her. But if she seems unrepentant or repeats the offense, then you might want to consider distancing yourself from her. You can’t call someone a “friend” if she’s waiting for a chance to see you trip and fall.
- DON’T GIVE INTO THE DRAMA. Don’t show that you’re mad or making a scene cause it will make people talk about you more. Having a scene of humor about it and laughing it off will encourage people to see how ridiculous it is, too.
- WATCH WHAT YOU SAY. Most people tell their secrets as way to get “closer” to other people which are wrong. You should only tell secrets to people you’re already close to, and whom you trust.
- DAMAGE CONTROL. If a piece of gossip is particularly damaging to you, and you feel like you need to do something about it, then you can try to get your side heard (though it may be difficult). You can approach people individually to discuss it, or you can gather people in a group and have an “open forum.”
- DON'T GET EVEN BY GOSSIPING BACK. Gossiping back to make the situation even is a very wrong decision. Show that you’re different from them.
- FOCUS ON YOUR TALENTS. Fight how gossip brings down your confidence by helping to build it up.
Stop Talking About Me! by Kuya Lumier

Sometimes it’s not the scary prof, toxic exams or tons of homework you have to learn to survive in college – it’s the gossip.
Anyone became a victim of gossip and we know how frustrating it is, since news (whether true or not) can spread like a lighting in college; and stories tend to get worse the more they are passed around. Overhearing gossip about you can make you feel hurt, mad and helpless, particularly in certain cases when gossip isn’t even the product of misunderstanding but just plain lies. Let’s face it, gossip is entertaining. Who wouldn’t want to hear the latest issue in the campus, or who sent to the Dean’s office? So gossip is popular among us.
There are two types: Harmless gossip, which is just news that doesn’t hurt anyone and Harmful gossip, which can give negative effects on someone’s reputation or self -esteem.
There are also few reasons why people indulge in harmful gossip and none of them good…
- TO FEEL SPECIAL. Those people want to feel important and popular, and gossiping is their way of achieving it.
- TO BRING OTHER PEOPLE DOWN. When someone is the object of admiration because he/she is a nice person and someone is insecure about that. It could give horribly envious. They can’t stand the attention being lavished upon another person, and would love to keep other people from admiring the person by putting her/him in a bas light. To do this, they gossip, sometimes exaggerating the person’s mistakes, twisting the truth, or even totally making stuff up just to make their object of envy appear stupid or have whatever horrible personality flaws the gossip can think of. This way, the gossip can still feel that he or she is still “better” than the other person (this is why some people end up back-stabbing their friends!).
- FOR REVENGE. When some people feel offended by someone, they go out of their way to destroy the other person’s reputation by badmouthing them.
- JUST OUT OF THE PURE HABIT. Giving own opinions even though we don’t know all the facts. We often gossip without even realizing what we’re doing.
Sunday, May 20, 2007
Q and A: Kuya Lumier on the Blazing Hot Seat
Q: Kuya Lumier, are you a Bisexual?
A: Absolutely yes
Q: In your own understanding, what is Bisexual?
A:A Bisexual is someone who is sexually and emotionally attracted to people of both genders.
Q: So you’re equally interested in Men and Women?
A: Not really. Gender isn’t relevant to who I interested in. For some, they’re attracted to Men and Women indifferent ways.
Q: Doesn’t being interested in both gender mean you’re only half as interested in either?
A: It depends to a individual. Most bisexuals will probably say that when they’re interested in someone, they’re interested in them 100%.
Q: Aren’t people really either heterosexual or homosexual?
A: No. It’s well recognized in psychology and even in medical fields that bisexuality is a real sexuality.
Q: Isn’t bisexual is a transition to being lesbian or gay?
A: Maybe for some. Some people “come out” as bisexual first but most bisexuals remain Bi for the rest of their lives.
Q: Suppose I have a feeling in both genders. Doest that mean I’m Bisexual too?
A: Seriously, Maybe. But its up to you. Some may feel the attraction they feel for one sex isn’t good enough to call them Bi.
Q: Why do some people do not identify themselves as Bisexuals?
A: some people want to be normal. Others for political and social reasons. The only person who understands the situation is those who belong on it.
Q: Doesn’t the term “Lesbian & Gay” include “Bisexual” as well?
A: It’s getting hot in here. Lol. Some people think so, but there are plenty especially the straight acting Bi’s who disagree. For me, I’m a Bisexual and I’m also a Gay.
Once you’re attracted with same gender and got sexual something, you’re Gay.
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A: Absolutely yes
Q: In your own understanding, what is Bisexual?
A:A Bisexual is someone who is sexually and emotionally attracted to people of both genders.
Q: So you’re equally interested in Men and Women?
A: Not really. Gender isn’t relevant to who I interested in. For some, they’re attracted to Men and Women indifferent ways.
Q: Doesn’t being interested in both gender mean you’re only half as interested in either?
A: It depends to a individual. Most bisexuals will probably say that when they’re interested in someone, they’re interested in them 100%.
Q: Aren’t people really either heterosexual or homosexual?
A: No. It’s well recognized in psychology and even in medical fields that bisexuality is a real sexuality.
Q: Isn’t bisexual is a transition to being lesbian or gay?
A: Maybe for some. Some people “come out” as bisexual first but most bisexuals remain Bi for the rest of their lives.
Q: Suppose I have a feeling in both genders. Doest that mean I’m Bisexual too?
A: Seriously, Maybe. But its up to you. Some may feel the attraction they feel for one sex isn’t good enough to call them Bi.
Q: Why do some people do not identify themselves as Bisexuals?
A: some people want to be normal. Others for political and social reasons. The only person who understands the situation is those who belong on it.
Q: Doesn’t the term “Lesbian & Gay” include “Bisexual” as well?
A: It’s getting hot in here. Lol. Some people think so, but there are plenty especially the straight acting Bi’s who disagree. For me, I’m a Bisexual and I’m also a Gay.
Once you’re attracted with same gender and got sexual something, you’re Gay.
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Prejudice within the Tribe by Kuya Lumier
The discrimination inside the homosexual community
In the Phil., I’ve been observed something unusual. Those people who had been experiencing discrimination from the society have also been discriminated by the members of its kind. I’m talking about homosexuals who encountered discernment from other homosexuals.
Parang usong uso ngayong generation ang pagiging bisexual. Ang daming bisexual ngayon as in na tanggap nila ang pagiging silahis nila (just like me). There’s no problem about that because you’re being true to yourself. The problem is most bisexuals today have been discriminated the covert homosexuals (those who are effeminate). Bisexuals in lay-man’s term must be or must possess the following: Straight acting, dressed up like a real straight one and so on. Though bisexuals are only one kind of homosexuals, they treat themselves different from the other homosexuals. I’m not telling that all bisexuals do discrimination; I humbly say that most bisexuals do it especially the overt ones.
There's a discrimination because lack of knowledge regarding the homosexuality as a whole. I’m not into discrimination (even I’m also considering my self as a bisexual) kasi wala namang tao ang gustong madiscriminate sila, hindi ba? We must understand each other that we are unique individuals. Being effeminate of a homosexual maybe means being true to his feeling. Although being effeminate is a choice, we must respect it. Siguro isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit dinidiscriminate ang mga homosexuals ngayon ay dahil meron din discrimination mismo sa loob nito. If we could respect and understand each and every kind, we could now fight for equality in sexual preferences. Dito muna tayo sa loob mag-umpisa bago tayo lumabas. Pag-ok na ang internal pwede na natin ayusin yung mga problema sa external na mas mahirap ayusin dahil mas malaki ito. It’s the world itself ang nasa labas. Getz?! The solution, I think is, to expand the knowledge of the homosexuals for they will able understand the situation and the homosexuality itself. How can I do that?! The blogs here could able to help you understand the homosexuality just like understanding and accepting you as part of the homosexual community.
The Church and The Homosexuality by Kuya Lumier
Ano nga ba ang katayuan nang Simbahan sa Homosexuality? Sa pagkakaalala ko, ang homosexual na Gawain ay isinumpa raw at ito ay ayon sa Bible.makikita ito sa Lev. 18:22, 20:13; Rom. 1:26-27; 1 Cor 6:9-10. Sinasabi sa Rom. 1:26-27 na itinuturing ang homosexuality as an attitude to a punishment because of loss in faith.
Ang moral issue ng Simbahan ay naka focus sa gawaing homosexual at hindi sa homosexual identity dahil ang gawaing homosexual ay madalas na kagustuhan o kusang-loob, samantalang ang homosexual identity ay hindi kagustuhan.
In my own opinion: Accepting your self as a homosexual is being true to your self, setting your self free, and being normal. For me, walang masama sa pagiging homosexual pati sa mga gawaing homosexual. It’s part of being you as a homosexual. Isipin nalang natin na homo ka pero hindi mo magawa ang mga bagay na ginagawa nang isang homo. Parang may kulang hindi ba? Parang hindi ka Malaya at hindi mo nagagawa ang gusto mo. Wala rin akong nakikitang masama kung magmahal ka nang same sex. Ang sabi naman ni God ay Love your neighbors as you love yourself. Ang isa sa principle kasi ni God sa bible is to propagate the human race kaya sinasabing masama ang mga homosexual na gawain noon. Paano nga naman dadami ang tao that time kung dadami ang homo hindi ba? Ang nakikita kong masama ay ang malakas na sexual prejudice lalo na sa Christian countries katulad natin. Maybe it’s time for us to broaden our understanding. Let’s face the reality na ang homosexuality ay parte nang kalikasan at buhay, matagal na. Kung mangyayari yun lahat tayo masaya. We all know that homosexuals have a vital role in molding and contributing changes in our society and I know, time will come that there will be equality in all aspects in life. I am a Catholic and I’m not against in Christian teachings as a whole. There is no perfect religion in this world and I believe that there are some errors in those teachings. It’s all pure opinions, no reasons to be offended.
Homosexuality by Kuya Lumier

It is a strong sexual desire which pertains to same sex. This desire is redundant and long term. Anyone who experiences this desire, either a male or a female, is called homosexual.
The word ‘homosexual’ is from the Greek word ‘homo’ which means same and the Latin word ‘sexus’ which means sex. The word ‘homosexual’ is build by Karl Maria Kertbenny in 1869 that was used in American Medical Journal in 1890.
Classification of Homosexuality:
Gays– a popular modern term that describes a male homosexual; a male who sexually attracted towards a person of the same sex and usually possess a female traits.
Lesbians – referred to a female homosexual; a female who sexually attracted towards a person of the same sex and usually possess a male traits.
Bisexuals – a person who sexually attracted to both sexes (male and female sex). Bisexual is only a kind of homosexual that they’re not usually characterized themselves as a gay or a lesbian. A female bisexual is called a bifem or a bifemale and a male bisexual is called a bimale.
Transgender – also known as Transsexual; a person of one sex who do a sex change or a change in its physical body by means of operation.
Kinds of Homosexuality:
Exclusive / Obligatory Homosexuals: they have no sexual desire in opposite sex or much lesser compared to homosexual desire.
Facultative Homosexuals: the homosexual activity is only happened because of no chances of sexual communication in opposite sex.
Bisexuals: they feel sexual satisfaction in communication in both opposite and same sex.
Overt Homosexuals: they are obvious of being a homosexual by words, actions and even the way they dressed up.
Covert Homosexuals: they hide their true sexuality (being a homosexual) in a man or woman mask.
The word ‘homosexual’ is from the Greek word ‘homo’ which means same and the Latin word ‘sexus’ which means sex. The word ‘homosexual’ is build by Karl Maria Kertbenny in 1869 that was used in American Medical Journal in 1890.
Classification of Homosexuality:
Gays– a popular modern term that describes a male homosexual; a male who sexually attracted towards a person of the same sex and usually possess a female traits.
Lesbians – referred to a female homosexual; a female who sexually attracted towards a person of the same sex and usually possess a male traits.
Bisexuals – a person who sexually attracted to both sexes (male and female sex). Bisexual is only a kind of homosexual that they’re not usually characterized themselves as a gay or a lesbian. A female bisexual is called a bifem or a bifemale and a male bisexual is called a bimale.
Transgender – also known as Transsexual; a person of one sex who do a sex change or a change in its physical body by means of operation.
Kinds of Homosexuality:
Exclusive / Obligatory Homosexuals: they have no sexual desire in opposite sex or much lesser compared to homosexual desire.
Facultative Homosexuals: the homosexual activity is only happened because of no chances of sexual communication in opposite sex.
Bisexuals: they feel sexual satisfaction in communication in both opposite and same sex.
Overt Homosexuals: they are obvious of being a homosexual by words, actions and even the way they dressed up.
Covert Homosexuals: they hide their true sexuality (being a homosexual) in a man or woman mask.
Saturday, May 19, 2007
Si Kuya Lumier asa blogger.com na!

Matry nga ko ang free blog site na ito. Puro free blog site lang naman kaya ko ipenetrate eh. student palang kc ako. wala pang income bukod sa kickback sa tuition. Hanggang ngayon naguguluhan pa ko kung saan ba talga ako magstable na blog site. minsan kasi nahihirapan ako gamitin ang mga services nang mga blog sites. at syempre ang pinaka ayaw ko ay yung may bayad na site. amateur blogger pa lang ako. wish ko nga na maging stable na ang paggawa ko nang blog. maski ako naguguluhan kung ano ang ginagmit kong username at password un sa isang blog site at dun sa isa pa. Amateur blogger palang ako at nagpapalawak nang experiences sa pagbloblogging. baka may suggestion kayo kung saan ang may magandang services nang blog at dapat free ito. thanks readers...
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